Man Leaves Bumble Date Stranded at Restaurant When She Asks to Be Chauffeured to Her ‘Kissing Friend’s’ House Afterwards, He Leaves Without Paying

Advertisement
  • 01
    I appreciated Ana's honesty, but this whole thing felt like a huge gut punch. I was maybe in my feelings but I just couldn't do it anymore. I told Ana to just ask Josh to pick her up, and I paid for my portion of the dinner and left. Ana looked really sad when I ended the date and left.
  • 02
    r/AITAH ⚫ 8 hr. ago Commercial-Tone-620 AITAH for leaving my bumble date "stranded" at a restaurant after she admitted she was going to her guy best friend's place after the date
  • 03
    A couple of months ago, I matched with Ana on Bumble. I thought we vibed really well, she had a really nice and funny demeanour and we had lots of engaging conversations on FaceTime.
  • 04
    We set up our first dinner date last week. I proposed a really nice restaurant which was sort of far from where we lived, but I really wanted to treat Ana because I thought she was special. Ana asked if I could pick her up and then after the date drop her off at her best friend's place. I didn't mind it all. Ana said she had movie night with her best friend.
  • 05
    I picked Ana up and we went to the restaurant. The date went better than expected, we vibed really well. Ana also had drinks since I was the designated driver. However, right at the end of the date, Ana asked if I would drop her off at Josh's. I was initially confused and then realised Josh was her guy best friend.
  • 06
    Ana instantly realised what she said and it sort of became awkward. Ana apologised and I told Ana there was no reason to apologise. I was just curious about who Josh was so I asked Ana, and Ana said he was her guy best friend, and they occasionally have movie nights. Ana said she wanted to be honest with me
  • 07
    because she really liked me and saw a future with me, and she admitted they sometimes make out during these movie nights but it doesn't go further than that.
  • 08
    I appreciated Ana's honesty, but this whole thing felt like a huge gut punch. I was maybe in my feelings but I just couldn't do it anymore. I told Ana to just ask Josh to pick her up, and I paid for my portion of the dinner and left. Ana looked really sad when I ended the date and left.
  • 09
    I felt sort of guilty about it later and called my sister to ask her if I what I had done was right. My sister said I shouldn't have left Ana stranded at the restaurant, especially after Ana was really sweet and honest with me. I told my sister how I could be expected to take Ana for a really fancy dinner, and then drop off her at
  • 10
    her guy best friend's house, where she would then make out with him. I had enough self respect left not to do that. Was I the AH?
  • 11
    SillyRabbit1010 .7h ago • Idk about you guys but I don't make out with my best friends...or regular friends
  • 12
    Simple-Plankto... 8h ago • Top 1% Commenter NTA, she asked you to drop her off at a some guy's place and that normally they make out. Who says that on a date?? And who even does that..
  • 13
    Crafty_Special_7... • 8h ago. Top 1% Commenter They sometimes make out during these movie nights? She is so stupid. She should just be dating the guy friend. ΝΤΑ
  • 14
    professorfunken... • 7h ago. NTA- and this is why, for early dates, everybody should provide their own transportation
  • 15
    Miserable-Most-... • 7h ago • Top 1% Commenter Nothing like taking a girl on a date, she tells you the date was great she likes you. You start to feel like you got lucky on a dating app, then she asks you to drop her off at her friends with benefits guy. NTA
  • 16
    a... 7h ago Edited 7h ago Top 1% Commenter NTA - Josh was her date for the evening. You were just her meal ticket. Don't put up with being used.
  • 17
    One_Humor1307 • 6h ago • NTA. It's a first date so if she's seeing someone else too that is fine. But asking you to drive her to her next date and telling you how she makes out with the guy while they watch movies is ridiculous.
  • 18
    OkBoysenberry... 7h ago • NTA. It is best to remove yourself from situations like that. I think Ana is making some poor life decisions, but that is not on you. I don't generally support ditching people, but with her red flags it was probably safer to not be alone in a vehicle with her.
  • 19
    lovebeinganass... 7h ago • Top 1% Commenter Sweet and honest? ? Uh no she was trying to see if you were just as much as a wuss as her "guy best friend" that would accept that kind of bulls. ΝΤΑ.
  • 20
    changelingcd .7h ago • Top 1% Commenter All she had to do was text Josh at any point during the evening "Date's going really well, no movie night tonight. See you some other time," and then kept having fun with you. Or (even better) don't plan two separate dates on the same evening. NTA
  • 21
    Accomplished_... 8h ago • Top 1% Commenter NTA You let her at the restaurant not in middle of a forest in the night. So much drama.
  • 22
    PS: Your sister really should get some standards. Cuz she was not being honest, she got caught up and didn't even bother to lie. She was disrespectful and huge red flag.

Tags

Scroll Down For The Next Article